District 75

Service Board / ISR / District Meetings - February 2023

Al-Anon Service Board Meeting – Zoom Info TBA

February 25, 2023 9:30 am - District 72 Meeting – 4th Saturday of every month except May, November, and December.

Atonement Lutheran Church

10245 Loma Rancho Drive

Spring Valley, CA

March 13, 2023 6:30 pm – District 75 Meeting – 2nd Tuesday of every odd-numbered month

March 14, 2023 7 pm – District 79 Meeting – 2nd Tuesday of every odd-numbered month

District 75 Report - January 2023

And its 2023 … do you believe it?  Time does go by so quickly for me.  It’s been 3 years as the area District Rep and time for me to look for other service activities to help keep Al-Anon alive and well.

We will be having a meeting in January 9th at 6:30 pm on Zoom Meeting ID 822 4085 1324 Password 75 if you would like to join in.  We will be electing a new DR … if someone steps up of course!  Do you want to learn about yourself?

I said this last month but find it so important I’m going to say it again. As my term of 3 years as District Rep comes to an end, I do want to share that indeed I learned A LOT about myself.  Patience, kindness to others, listening with a better ear were all experience as DR that helped me become a better person in all areas of my life.  One of my first experiences as a GR was an event we were putting on.  I learned very quickly that everyone has an opinion of how to do something and lo and behold while mine was a good one, so were the others … what a lesson that applies today to all areas of my life.  Without any service to Al-Anon I might be stuck still thinking my idea(s) were the best … it just isn’t so!

One of my favorite Al-Anon service activities is Public Outreach.  Lynne N. our Public Outreach Coordinator for the District will be looking for individuals to assist her now that the pandemic has us able to do more.  Want to get involved with that?  You don’t have to be a GR and it is, for me, one of the most important service positions.  Get the word out about Al-Anon is critical as it is so surprising how many folks still don’t know about what Al-Anon has to offer families and friends of Alcoholics.

Remember that service in Al-Anon is critical so we will be there for Newcomers, something we all were at a point in our lives and is critical to our continuance. Newcomers rely on our sharing the word and being sure meetings are there for them, If you can please do service to your group, your District or the area of Southern California.  Whatever it is you will learn so much about YOURSELF and the workings of Al-Anon.  Yes, each group is autonomous, but there are many folks, mostly volunteers, who keep the availability of meetings and any problems or issues with meetings, moving forward.  

AND, most essentially there are folks that make sure we can be found for the many Newcomers who need the program.  So do what you can, setup chairs at a meeting, be the group secretary or anything else your meeting might need.  For the District we have Group Representatives (GRs) who provide information back to the meetings as they attend District Meetings and Area Assemblies.  You will, I promise, learn so much.  Anything you do will be a saving grace for the Newcomers.  

AND don’t forget to check the Intercom as well as the website for upcoming events.  There is always things going on with the San Diego Area which can benefit you.  Sharing, learning and caring makes our lives better and for me, gives me serenity which is most important to me.  Don’t forget about our Saturday Night Speaker Meeting!  Always good speakers and fellowship at the meeting place in La Mesa.

Did you know the WSO has a new audio page particularly for newcomers, but is also good for anyone to hear?  With that said, our District is looking to put together a Newcomers meeting to share with them “How Al-Anon works.” Good info for them now is at: 

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/first-steps-al-anon-recovery/

Then, of course, here in San Diego we are lucky to have an active AIS Office in Mission Valley.  They are always in need of volunteers … check it out, you might like it!  You’ll make new friends and be helpful to all who have a need to call in, walk in or whatever it is they need assistance with.  Not all Districts have an AIS Office, so we are a few of the lucky ones.

As an Al-Anon member and as a District Rep, I continue to experience life to its fullest, with all the ups and downs.  My life is still a bit topsy turvy, but I work hard to maintain my serenity with all the tools of the program.  How lucky are we to have a program that offers us so so much on how to have experiences in life and a way to keep us serene!  I am grateful!

District 75 is comprised of the City of San Diego meetings.  There are currently 55 meetings 26 registered Group Reps and 15 or so active Group Reps.  Is your meeting getting info about all the happenings with our District County and Area?  If not please consider at least attending a meeting, or talking with me, or even getting on my mailing list for info so you can share it with your group.  There is so much happening within the Al-Anon program, and it can benefit all to learn more.  If you have questions, please contact me.  

Alateen is moving forward again in San Diego County!  We now have a connection to the San Diego School District, Grossmont School District as well as Juvenile Hall.  Do you know someone that can benefit from the Alateen program?  There are numerous AMIAS’ ready and willing to support the Alateen program.  Slow, but sure, Alateen is getting more and more teen members.  Please let the teens in your life know there are meetings now both online and in person.  It is such a benefit to them to learn and understand how it can ensure they learn the importance of our program.  So many already have benefited in the past, so let’s get it going again so others can too.

I’ve mention this before, but I am finding it might benefit folks to repeat this.  Have you been going to the same meeting only, not experiencing other meetings?  With all the in-person, hybrid and zoom meetings online I strongly suggest you experience some other meetings.  It is a chance to see others engage in their program.  It is a worthwhile to see other people and experience other meetings … take a little time for yourself and go to the San Diego County website and check out other meetings you can attend.  OR, better yet, go to the WSO website so you can even find a zoom meeting in other locales around the world.

https//www.alanonsandiego.org/

https://al-anon.org/

Look for information on our AIS (local office), Area and WSO websites, and until we get a new District Rep, I will continue to be emailing information to your group’s CMA, as well as your Group Rep (GR) as I receive updates on meetings being face-to-face or hybrid as well as happenings and events in our community.  If your group does not get notices mentioned at your meetings, please inform me.

As many groups are starting to meet in person or as hybrid meetings, be sure to Report any changes to your meeting at https://www.scws-al-anon.org/alanon-group-registration-records-change-form/ … if you need to know your group number let me know!  It is critical we keep our records straight so newcomers can find us.  More on electronic meetings and hybrid meetings will forthcoming soon.  Have some questions or ideas, please let me know.

One more time, I remind you to check out the book “When I Got Busy, I Got Better.”  It’s all about getting active in Service to Al-Anon and how it will affect your personal program.  Trust me, it’s true!  You will be grateful for all you learn about yourself and the Al-Anon program.

I know my experience, strength and hope will continue to grow and I wish the same for you.  Living One Day At A Time, I am super grateful for the lessons I learn to have serenity!  I know it wouldn’t be like this if I didn’t have the Al-Anon program and the many friends I have made along the way.  I practice all I can, so my serenity is not disturbed too much. Doing service for Al-Anon definitely helps me! Is my life sometimes chaotic?  Sure … but without all of you I would be a total mess … so thank you all!

Grateful for Al-Anon and to be of service, 

Elaine A. Phone: 619 254 3432 Email: [email protected]

Service Board / ISR / District Meetings - January 2023

Service Board
2nd Saturday of every month at 9:00am
Saturday, January 14, 2023, at 9:00am

ISR
2nd Saturday of every odd numbered month at 10:30am
Saturday, January 14, 2022, at 10:30am

Zoom ID: 752 699 5666 Password: EJH6dK

District 69
2nd Tuesday of every odd numbered month at 7:00pm
Tuesday, January 10, 2022, at 7:00pm 

District 72
4th Saturday of every even numbered month at 10:00am
Saturday, December 24, 2022, at 10:00am 
Location: Atonement Lutheran Church, 10245 Loma Rancho Drive, Spring Valley.
Note: Depending on the facility requirements, this meeting may be Electronic.

District 75
2nd Monday of every odd numbered month at 6:30pm
Monday, January 9, 2022, at 6:30pm   


Find other events on our calendar.

District 75 Report - December 2022

October is the beginning of a newer time of the year.  Just like we can start our days over anytime, seasons create a different atmosphere for us to learn day by day.  I do want to remind everyone again, my term will be expiring in December 2022. SO, if you have any desire to learn more about the workings of Al-Anon especially in our Area, please consider call me so you can learn more about what being a District Rep entails.  I’ll share my experience as DR.  There is also a brochure I can send you on the responsibilities too.  You will learn so much about Al-Anon as well as yourself thru service, so please consider it.

AND, don’t forget to check the Intercom as well as the website for upcoming events.  By the way, this month there will be no in-person Saturday Speaker Meeting … I’ll be sending out the flier to all my contacts soon … if you want me just call or email me.

AND, of course if you are a current GR too, you can learn more about stepping up to giving more service for Al-Anon that I’ll be sharing at our meeting.  It is how I grow and grow, learn and give back for what we have gained.  Service in Al-Anon is critical so we will be there for Newcomers, something we all were at a point in our lives and is critical to our continuance.

Newcomers rely on our sharing the word and being sure meetings are there for them,  If you can please do service to your group, your district or the area of Southern California.  Whatever it is you will learn so much about YOURSELF and the workings of Al-Anon.  Yes each group is autonomous, but there are many folks, mostly volunteers, who keep the availability of meetings and any problems or issues with meetings, moving forward.  

AND, most essentially there are folks that make sure we can be found for the many Newcomers who need the program.  So do what you can, setup chairs at a meeting, be the group secretary or anything else your meeting might need.  For the District we have Group Representatives (GRs) who provide information back to the meetings as they attend District Meetings and Area Assemblies.  You will, I promise, learn so much.  Anything you do will be a saving grace for the Newcomers.  

Did you know the WSO has a new audio page particularly for newcomers, but is also good for anyone to hear?  With that said, our District is looking to put together a Newcomers meeting to share with them “How Al-Anon works.” Good info for them now is at: 

https://al-anon.org/newcomers/first-steps-al-anon-recovery/

Then, of course, here in San Diego we are lucky to have an active AIS Office in Mission Valley.  They are always in need of volunteers … check it out, you might like it!  You’ll make new friends and be helpful to all who have a need to call in, walk in or whatever it is they need assistance with.  Not all Districts have an AIS Office, so we are a few of the lucky ones.

As an Al-Anon member and as a District Rep, I continue to experience life to its fullest, with all the ups and downs.  My life is still a bit topsy turvy, but I work hard to maintain my serenity with all the tools of the program.  How lucky are we to have a program that offers us so so much on how to have experiences in life and a way to keep us serene!  I am grateful!

District 75 is comprised of the City of San Diego meetings.  There are currently 55 meetings 26 registered Group Reps and 15 or so active Group Reps.  Is your meeting getting info about all the happenings with our District County and Area?  If not please consider at least attending a meeting, or talking with me, or even getting on my mailing list for info so you can share it with your group.  There is so much happening within the Al-Anon program and it can benefit all to learn more.  If you have questions, please contact me.  

I’m still looking for someone that has some connections to the San Diego Police Department to be able to get permission to place business cards about Al-Anon in the precincts.  Do you know someone that can help?  Please let me know so we can get this worthwhile project going.

Alateen is moving forward again in San Diego County!  We now have a connection to the San Diego School District, Grossmont School District as well as Juvenile Hall.  Do you know someone that can benefit from the Alateen program?  There are numerous AMIAS’ ready and willing to support the Alateen program.  Slow, but sure, Alateen is getting more and more teen members.  Please let the teens in your life know there are meetings now both online and in person.  It is such a benefit to them to learn and understand how it can ensure they learn the importance of our program.  So many already have benefited in the past, so let’s get it going again so others can too.

I’ve mention this before, but I am finding it might benefit folks to repeat this.  Have you been going to the same meeting only, not experiencing other meetings?  With all the in person, hybrid and zoom meetings online I strongly suggest you experience some other meetings.  It is a chance to see others engage in their program.  It is a worthwhile to see other people and experience other meetings … take a little time for yourself and go to the San Diego County website and check out other meetings you can attend.  OR, go to the WSO website so you can even find a zoom meeting in other locales.

https//www.alanonsandiego.org/

https://al-anon.org/

Look for information on our AIS (local office), Area and WSO websites, as well as I will continue to be emailing information to your group’s CMA, as well as your Group Rep (GR) as I receive updates on meetings being face-to-face or hybrid or happenings and events in our community.  If your group does not get notices mentioned at your meetings, please inform me.

As many groups are starting to meet in person or as hybrid meetings, be sure to report any changes to your meeting at https://www.scws-al-anon.org/alanon-group-registration-records-change-form/ … if you need to know your group number let me know!  It is critical we keep our records straight so newcomers can find us.  More on electronic meetings and hybrid meetings will forthcoming soon.  Have some questions or ideas, please let me know.

One more time, I remind you to check out the book “When I Got Busy, I Got Better.”  It’s all about getting active in Service to Al-Anon and how it will affect your personal program.  Trust me, it’s true!  You will be grateful for all you learn about yourself and the Al-Anon program.

I know my experience, strength and hope will continue to grow and I wish the same for you.  Living One Day At A Time, I am super grateful for the lessons I learn to have serenity!  I know it wouldn’t be like this if I didn’t have the Al-Anon program and the many friends I have made along the way.  I practice all I can so my serenity is not disturbed too much. Doing service for Al-Anon definitely helps me! Is my life sometimes chaotic?  Sure … but without all of you I would be a total mess … so thank you all!

Our District meeting we anticipate meeting for an in-person get together so we can share, learn a bit more about each other and enjoy.  I also want to personally be able to thank all those that assisted me during my 3 year term as District Rep.  Let me know if you are interested in attending.  Visitors are always welcome!  Email or call me to get the info.  Hope to see you there!

Grateful for Al-Anon and to be of service, 

Elaine A. Phone: 619 254 3432 Email: [email protected]

Service Board / ISR / District Meetings - December 2022

Service Board
2nd Saturday of every month at 9:00am
Saturday, December 10, 2022, at 9:00am

ISR
2nd Saturday of every odd numbered month at 10:30am
Saturday, January 14, 2022, at 10:30am

Zoom ID: 752 699 5666 Password: EJH6dK

District 69
2nd Tuesday of every odd numbered month at 7:00pm
Tuesday, January 10, 2022, at 7:00pm 

District 72
4th Saturday of every even numbered month at 10:00am
Saturday, December 24, 2022, at 10:00am 
Location: Atonement Lutheran Church, 10245 Loma Rancho Drive, Spring Valley.
Note: Depending on the facility requirements, this meeting may be Electronic.

District 75
2nd Monday of every odd numbered month at 6:30pm
  Monday, January 9, 2022, at 6:30pm   


Find other events on our Calendar of Events.

January 26, 2023 12pm-1pm – San Marcos Noon AFG – 8th Anniversary Guest Speaker Meeting – St. Mark’s Church, 1147 Discovery Street, San Marcos – Speaker Julia M from Oceanside – Opportunity drawing for a gift basket

January 28, 2023 4pm-5:30pm – 5th Bilingual Al-Anon Writing Workshop / 5o Taller Bilingüe de Al-Anon - Journal about your journey and growth / Escribe tu trayecto y crecimiento - Either type a document, or write by hand / Escribe a mano o en computadora - Submission is voluntary / Compartimiento es voluntario - For publication in Al-Anon literature / Para publicación en Al-Anon – Zoom ID: 395 556 4737  Password: 755000

January 30, 2023 7pm-8:30pm – Carlsbad Monday Night Discussion Group – Speaker Meeting – St. Michael’s By the Sea Church, 2775 Carlsbad Blvd, Carlsbad 92008 – Speaker TBA

February 4, 2023 6:30pm-8pm – San Diego AFG Speaker Meeting – La Mesa Adult Enrichment Center, 8458 La Mesa Blvd, La Mesa 91941 – 10-Minute Speaker Deana, San Carlos Serenity, 45-Minute Speaker Alin M, Sunday Night Courage to Change Step Study, Ocean Beach, bring a snack to share!

February 5, 2023 9am-10am - Group Meeting – Sunday Serenity Social Al-Anon Meeting – Meeting meets in Spring Creek Park, Melrose Drive, Oceanside – New rain location – If raining (and no one there), meet at Denny’s, 605 College Blvd, Oceanside - Okay to come late – If questions, call Jeff P 760-707-9399

February 11, 2023 10am-12pm – Southern California World Service Electronic Groups Town Hall Meeting – Open to all An-Anon Members – Questions? Contact [email protected]

English:  Zoom ID: 850 4695 4885  Password: 429422

Spanish: Zoom ID: 853 9129 6299  Password: 296244

March 4, 2023 6:30pm-8pm – San Diego AFG Speaker Meeting – La Mesa Adult Enrichment Center, 8458 La Mesa Blvd, La Mesa 91941 – 10-Minute Speaker Lisa P, Lost & Found Alanon, 45-Minute Speaker Michelle B & Christina, Tuesday Power Lunch Bunch, Host Group Lost & found Alanon - bring a snack to share!

March 13, 2023 7pm-8pm - Speaker Meeting – Search for Peace Al-Anon Family Group – Speaker: Lindsey A – Mission Trails Church, 4880 Zion Ave, San Diego 92120 – If questions, email Lea P [email protected]

March 15, 2023 11am-12pm - Speaker Meeting - Happy, Joyous and Free – District 72 – Speaker: Anita R – Pathways Community Church, 9626 Carlton Hills Blvd, Cornerstone Room, Santee 92071 – If questions, email Barbara B [email protected]

March 24, 2023 All Weekend – 46th Annual Southern California Al-Anon Family Groups Convention – Multiple speakers and convention breakfast, luncheon, and banquet - Ontario DoubleTree Hotel, 222 N Vineyard Avenue, Ontario 91764 – for more information, visit www.afgconvention.org

District 75 Report - November 2022

District 75 is comprised of the City of San Diego meetings.  There are currently 55 meetings 26 registered Group Reps and 15 or so active Group Reps.  Is your meeting getting info about all the happenings with our District County and Area?  If not please consider at least attending a meeting, or talking with me, or even getting on my mailing list for info so you can share it with your group.  There is so much happening within the Al-Anon program and it can benefit all to learn more.  If you have questions, please contact me.  

I’m still looking for someone that has some connections to the San Diego Police Department to be able to get permission to place business cards about Al-Anon in the precincts.  Do you know someone that can help?  Please let me know so we can get this worthwhile project going.Alateen is moving forward again in San Diego County!  We now have a connection to the San Diego School District, Grossmont School District as well as Juvenile Hall.  Do you know someone that can benefit from the Alateen program?  There are numerous AMIAS’ ready and willing to support the Alateen program.  Slow, but sure, Alateen is getting more and more teen members.  Please let the teens in your life know there are meetings now both online and in person.  It is such a benefit to them to learn and understand how it can ensure they learn the importance of our program.  So many already have benefited in the past, so let’s get it going again so others can too.I’ve mention this before, but I am finding it might benefit folks to repeat this.  Have you been going to the same meeting only, not experiencing other meetings?  With all the in person, hybrid and zoom meetings online I strongly suggest you experience some other meetings.  It is a chance to see others engage in their program.  It is a worthwhile to see other people and experience other meetings … take a little time for yourself and go to the San Diego County website and check out other meetings you can attend.  OR, go to the WSO website so you can even find a zoom meeting in other locales.https//www.alanonsandiego.org/

https://al-anon.org/Look for information on our AIS (local office), Area and WSO websites, as well as I will continue to be emailing information to your group’s CMA, as well as your Group Rep (GR) as I receive updates on meetings being face-to-face or hybrid or happenings and events in our community.  If your group does not get notices mentioned at your meetings, please inform me.As many groups are starting to meet in person or as hybrid meetings, be sure to report any changes to your meeting at https://www.scws-al-anon.org/alanon-group-registration-records-change-form/ … if you need to know your group number let me know!  It is critical we keep our records straight so newcomers can find us.  More on electronic meetings and hybrid meetings will forthcoming soon.  Have some questions or ideas, please let me know.

One more time, I remind you to check out the book “When I Got Busy, I Got Better.”  It’s all about getting active in Service to Al-Anon and how it will affect your personal program.  Trust me, it’s true!  You will be grateful for all you learn about yourself and the Al-Anon program.

I know my experience, strength and hope will continue to grow and I wish the same for you.  Living One Day At A Time, I am super grateful for the lessons I learn to have serenity!  I know it wouldn’t be like this if I didn’t have the Al-Anon program and the many friends I have made along the way.  I practice all I can so my serenity is not disturbed too much. Doing service for Al-Anon definitely helps me! Is my life sometimes chaotic?  Sure … but without all of you I would be a total mess … so thank you all!Our District meeting we anticipate meeting for an in-person get together so we can share, learn a bit more about each other and enjoy.  I also want to personally be able to thank all those that assisted me during my 3 year term as District Rep.  Let me know if you are interested in attending.  Visitors are always welcome!  Email or call me to get the info.  Hope to see you there!Grateful for Al-Anon and to be of service, 

Elaine A. Phone: 619 254 3432 Email: [email protected]